You’re probably wondering, “What questions should I ask a guy to get to know him better?” Here are some ideas:
- What do you like most about yourself?
- What is one thing that you would change about yourself if you could?
What’s your favorite little thing I do, but nobody else knows about it?
This question is great because the answer will give you a good idea of how your guy perceives you. It’s also an opportunity to get a little bit closer by asking him something that nobody else knows about.
If he can come up with something, then there is a pretty decent chance that he sees himself as part of some sort of relationship with you. If not, then this question probably won’t be relevant to his answer and will leave both of you wondering what kind of relationship this is going to be!
Have you ever kept a New Year’s resolution?
Have you ever kept a New Year’s resolution?
They’re good for the soul, and they show that you have an eye towards self-improvement and growth. But it’s not easy to keep these promises. It takes time, effort, and commitment to improve who we are as people—and when we make those personal changes (or support others who do), it makes us all feel great!
Before you ask this question: Remember that asking this question requires some pre-amble because of what New Year’s resolutions are: promises people make to themselves to do an act of self-improvement or something slightly nice such as opening doors for people beginning from New Year’s Day.
So here’s how it should go down: Ask them if they’ve ever kept a New Year’s resolution before; if so, what were their top two resolutions at the beginning of 2017? If not (and in my experience, most people haven’t), ask them what kinds of things their friends tend to do nowadays instead—like go on diets or start yoga classes together—and whether or not those sound appealing!
What did you think when we first started dating?
You can also ask him what he thought when you first started dating. If you have been together for a long time, it could be interesting to hear about his initial impression of you and how he felt about the relationship.
This is a great question to ask because it will help both of you understand each other better.
If you could read my mind, what would you do differently to make me feel better about us?
- This question is all about empathy. When you ask your partner this question, you’re essentially saying, “I want to be able to read your mind.” This can make them feel vulnerable and exposed. It’s a great way for a partner who is trying to get closer to their significant other in an effortless way—just by asking a simple question that requires no effort whatsoever.
- If your partner answers this question honestly and shares something deep with you (e.g., their fear of abandonment), it’s going to build trust between both parties because it shows that they care about not just saying things but actually feeling them too! It also shows how much time he/she spends thinking about what the other person wants before acting on it.*
- People who have suffered from trauma often struggle with trusting others because they were hurt by someone else before—this kind of thinking patterns leads them down paths where they don’t want anyone else getting close enough again because they think everyone will disappoint them eventually anyways.*
How does it make you feel when I’m mad at you?
It’s important to know how the person you’re dating feels when things don’t go well. This question is a way of getting to know how he handles stress, and whether or not he is able to be open with his feelings.
When asking this question, it’s best to be non-judgmental about his response. While it’s understandable that you might want some answers, remember that everyone handles stress differently, so try not to jump straight into “Why didn’t you do X?” Instead of focusing on what he should have done or what made him feel bad in that situation, try asking him why something makes him uncomfortable—it shows that he has support from someone who cares about him and wants him to be happy!
What makes you feel satisfied in a relationship?
What makes you feel satisfied in a relationship?
This is an important question to ask, as it can help you determine his attitude toward relationships and what he’s looking for in one. The answer can also tell you who he thinks is “the One.”
If your guy says that he wants to be needed by his partner, then he might not be ready for commitment yet. However, if he says that satisfaction comes from feeling like the only person in the world for someone else, then this could be an indication of how much he cares about having your love and attention all to himself. If your guy says that satisfaction comes from being able to be yourself with someone else and knowing that they’re always there for you when needed—then these are both signs of genuine love and affection between two people who trust each other implicitly!
When was the last time you lied?
Have you ever lied to someone?
When was the last time you lied?
What did you lie about?
Why did you lie?
What would you do differently next time if given the chance? (Ask this if it’s still early in the relationship and they haven’t had any other chances to lie.)
Does it bother or confuse them when people don’t tell them the truth, or do they just accept that as part of life and move on with their day-to-day activities.
Are you afraid of getting old?
When you ask a guy if he is afraid of getting old, it’s a good way to find out what his thoughts are on aging. He will most likely have many opinions and feelings about the topic, so it’s important that you listen closely to what he says.
If your friend or boyfriend tells you that he doesn’t like how fast time has gone by, then maybe this question is worth asking! It is also helpful because it gives him an opportunity to talk about his relationship with older people who he respects and admires (like grandparents).
Maybe your guy likes being old because that means more time with all of us younger folks! Or maybe spending more time at the beach isn’t really an option anymore due to arthritis or some other reason. In any case, asking this question will give both of you plenty of material for further talk!
Have you ever cheated on someone before?
Have you ever cheated on someone before?
This is a very important question because it can help you understand what cheating is, why people cheat and what the consequences of cheating are.
It’s important to understand that no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes and everyone has their flaws. A lot of people have been hurt by their significant others or partners after they found out they were unfaithful.
Cheating isn’t always intentional; sometimes people just make mistakes or aren’t aware of how far they’re willing to go with someone else until it’s too late. It happens all the time but we don’t necessarily talk about it often because there’s an awkward tension associated with discussing such things openly in today’s society where most folks are too afraid to open up about stuff like this for fear of being judged for whatever reason(s) might come up which can lead us into believing there isn’t any hope left when really there still exists some hope left within every single one of us if only we could find our way back home again!
What can someone do to get on your good side quickly?
There are a lot of ways you can get on someone’s good side quickly. For example, you could:
- Be nice and polite.
- Be funny.
- Be honest.
- Be generous.
If you’re not sure how to be any of those things, just keep reading! The answers are all in this article below!
These questions will help the two of you bond.
These questions will help the two of you bond:
- What’s your favorite food?
- What was your funniest childhood memory?
- How would you describe yourself in one word? (This is a great way to get inside his head and see what makes him tick.)
If you are dating a guy, you might be curious about how he feels about you. Asking a guy about his past experiences can help you to learn about him and his views on relationships in general.
Conclusion
As you can see, there are plenty of questions to ask a guy to get to know him. Whether you’re just looking for a conversation starter or want something more substantial, these questions will help you start an interesting dialogue. Keep in mind that this list is not exhaustive—there are plenty more ways for you and your guy friend to connect. So go ahead and use it as an outline for your own conversations with the guys in your life!
You can use this list as inspiration when meeting new people and making new friends at college parties or even just talking on social media. If none of these questions seem like they’ll work out well at first glance, don’t worry! There are many other ways that online dating sites like eHarmony® can help find someone who fits into our lives perfectly by matching us up based on what we say about ourselves (and what we don’t). The key is finding someone who shares similar interests and values without having too many differences between themself – which is exactly what happened when I met my husband through eHarmony’s personality test years ago!
